Archive | April 2017

Build Self-Esteem and Confidence?

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Feeling down about yourself is one of the many characteristics of low self-esteem. Learning about its causes, and taking practical steps to build your self-esteem, can help to overcome your negative thoughts. But if you feel like nothing’s working, there is also professional support available.

This might help if:
You have low self-esteem
You’d like to learn how to build self-esteem
You’d like to know the causes of low self-esteem
Signs of low self-esteem
It’s totally normal for people to feel down about themselves from time to time, but when these feelings start to hang around all the time it’s usually an indication of low self-esteem. If you have low self-esteem it…

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Words Actually Do Matter.


I never realize that the things I say can actually affect other people. One of my struggles is prudence, the realization that what I say can actually affect people. But, it does. The words that I say actually affect other people. I generally don’t realize it until it’s too late. I seem to think I have a pretty good read on people, and this comes into play when I realize what I just said actually affected the person negatively. As in my previous post, I struggle with pride: so I’m not gonna change. In fact, why should I change it’s the other person who needs to change! Yeah, right….. That doesn’t work. Sometimes you are the problem. Sometimes you are called to change yourself, actually scratch that, you are always called to change yourself. (pride and imprudence, not a good combination to have)

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What are the principles of success ?

Life goals & motivation

Who doesn’t love to be powerful & successful in life ? You can’t have much in life without learning the principles of success. Whatever you dream to accomplish, you must realize that to increase your chances of success, you must learn the principles you set forth to make your dream a reality. Preparation is the foundation of success. The most prepared person is the one that has the best chances, so it’s better to be prepared for an opportunity even if you don’t see it now. Luck happens when hard work meets opportunity, and success happens when you give it your absolute all. These are the 4 principles that you need to live by to attain the success you dream of:

ella-williams-sunset-idb• Motivation

Not everyone is self motivated, Motivation is a theoretical construct used to explain behaviour. It gives you the reason for your actions, desires, and needs. So while trying yourself…

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Seven Truths of Life

I G Malgwi's Blog

Don’t let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life. Relationships work best when they are balanced…

Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn’t need it and the person who doesn’t like you won’t believe it…

When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free. When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time. When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come…

When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices. Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams.
Choice is yours…

We make them cry who care for us. We cry for those who never care for us. And we care for those who will never cry…

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6 years ago; cancer.

Rhythm In Life


Today April the 29th six years ago I went under the knife for a liver resection to take out a 22 centimeter cancerous tumor along with 80% of my liver.

That day even though my heart was at peace for myself, I was scared and hurting deep for my two babies that at that point I thought would have to grow up without their mother like I did. That thought was painful. And of course my husband, my groom, my best friend would have to live a long Life without me.

There I was on that little bed, all set to meet my maker; really, I thought that was going to be my day. In fact, my doctor didn’t think I would make it through and if I did, he believed I would need a liver transplant.  Well, after an 11 hour surgery procedure, I woke up the Intensive Care…

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Lessons Learned from Finishing A Book

A Writer's Path

by Destine Williams

Hey everybody! It’s Meditative Monday which means that it’s time for tea, coffee, thoughts, and me sounding more like a fortune cookie than usual.

Over the weekend, I had time to celebrate with friends and family, but also I’ve had time to reflect on becoming an author and now I think I can actually translate the feelings into some valuable things that I learned on writing.

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